Devin Lockett and his son, Kai Lockett
This report was created to publicize the truth about my struggle to save and raise my son.
It is with a heavy heart that I create this report interface. My name is Devin Lockett, and I am the father of Kai Aldine Lockett. I have struggled with my son against the autism spectrum, and now I am struggling to protect my son from emotional, psychological, and sexual abuse by his mother, Chea Keo. Bookmark this page, as It is a living document. I will continue to fight for my son for the rest of my life. And I will publish here every step of my struggle, and expose all who present themselves as obstacles to justice.
I am fighting to save my son!
My son is being sexually abused by his mother, Chea Keo, on an ongoing basis. This has been happening since the day of his Catholic baptism, which was August 12th of 2020. I have no reason to lie about this. There is no ongoing custody battle between his mother and myself, as my son is now 18 years old. I have been reporting this abuse, and the toxic narcissistic enmeshment parenting abuse that preceded it, since the year 2013.
I have not been able to stop this abuse, in spite of my appeals to the San Bernardino County Department of Children and Family Services, the Upland Police Department, The San Bernardino County District Attorney, or the San Bernardino County Family Court system.
Personally, I hold active Top Secret SCI/SBI (SSBI) Security Clearance with the United States Federal Government. I am also a 4th-Degree Knight of Columbus in the Catholic Church. I am not a liar, and my character has been vetted by the FBI, CIA and OSI. I am also willing to submit to a polygraph. I have video evidence to support my claims, that the authorities heretofore have refused to view.
Video evidence to support everything can be found on Kai's YouTube channel, my Facebook profile, by following the Pictures and Videos links on this directory of my website, and on several of my YouTube channels.
Kai admits his mother molested him on two occasions.
Please watch the entire video.
On this website I will try to address the important points of my struggle to obtain immediate physical custody of my son, Kai Aldine Lockett. I believe his mother is suffering from Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy, and is willing to poison our son in order to negatively affect his cognitive ability. Chea Keo has been deliberately damaging his personality through toxic enmeshment parenting, and she has sexually molested him on at least two separate occasions, as he admitted in the above video.
Chea Keo is in a struggle for control over the development of Kai's personality, and she is willing to destroy his character and his relationship with God through incest in order to alienate him from me. She is trying to grind his self-esteem into the dust, as was done to her when she was a child. This is inducing a state of schizophrenia in my son, as she sends him the unspoken message that he cannot have his mother's love if he loves his father. Incest is causing a moral conflict, as well as a conflict of character and conscience, within my son. I hate to see him suffer like this. It is affecting his behavior and performance at school. I fear that she is repeating this incestuous behavior in order to break my son's character, and force him to internalize incest. Also to provoke an Oedipus Complex within him, which would alienate him from me and make him hate me.
Like any child, Kai does not want to see his mother go to jail, so he has lied about incest to the authorities in order to protect his mother. Chea Keo is repeatedly incesting my son in order to make him internalize incest and break his character. This is called trauma bonding This not only places Kai at risk of insanity and poor character, it also places my grandchildren at risk of sexual abuse, should Kai have children in the future. I feel sympathy for the horrors that Chea Keo has probably suffered at the hands of the men her mother sold her to when she was around 10 years old, but that does not mean I am willing to sacrifice my son's mental health because she refuses to seek help for herself.
Chea Keo has done none of the parenting acivities or autism therapies illustrated in the hundreds of pictures and videos displayed on this directory of my website, and has actively sought to hinder his cognitive health by poisoning him with mercury, which I have detected with urinalysis.
Chea Keo has a financial incentive to keep our son in a cognitively impaired condition, as she receives at least $750.00 per month from the Social Security Administration for Kai's care.
Chea Keo has never supported my efforts to recover my son from autism, and I am afraid she has been actively working to sabotage my efforts. I have carefully tracked my sons progress in recovery from autism, using the ATEC (Autism Treatment Evaluation Checklist) protocol, which is available online. The regression my son presently displays are the symptoms of mercury poisoning, which include blurred vision, skin rashes, and cognitive impairment. I feel a great sense of urgency in this matter, as further poisoning of my son could lead to permanent blindness and brain damage.
The picture above is the result of a urinalysis Kai performed at our home on July 24th, 2023, after I noticed Kai experiencing blurred vision, skin rashes, and iritability. These are signs of mercury poisoning. Notice the orange color, which indicates the strong presence of mercury.
This is the color chart for the Osumex Heavy Metals test. Kai still shows the presence of mercury, despite my efforts at chelating him through chelation therapy, Bentonite clay (Milorganite), and Zeolite (Clinoptilolite), as well as Ionic Foot Detoxification. He is being deliberately poisoned. Please notice the occasional droopyness and dark rings around his eyes on several of the pictures on this directory of my website.
Chea Keo and I have different cultures and perspectives about a child's role in a parent's life, and in life in general. I hope for Kai to one day individuate, because I understand that he will outlive both his mother and me, and he has to survive in this world. In Cambodian culture, children are seen as property. Chea does not want Kai to individuate. She wants Kai to be forever dependent upon her. Although Kai has been on the autism spectrum, Kai is much more perspicacious than his mother want's people to believe. Chea's narcissistic enmeshment abuse, and her efforts to trauma-bond Kai with incest, are intended to prevent Kai from individuating. This is why her parental alienation tactics have intensified as he gets older. Chea Keo does not care about Kai's ability to pair bond and live a normal life in the future. This may be why she showed no interest in any of Kai's autism therapies, tutoring, or physical exercise.
After seeing this high-mercury result, I rushed Kai to the Emergency Room at San Antonio Regional Hospital where they scheduled Kai for blood tests. Chea Keo tried her best to minimize the severity of the situation, and took a defensive attitude. She asked the laboratory technician to annotate his lab results as being a "low" level of mercury (as if that was the lab tech's job). But never once did she express any motherly concern for the elevated level of mercury in Kai's blood. Mind you, I never accused Chea of anything. I only told her Kai had a high level of mercury in his blood, and asked her to meet us at the Emergency Room.
I met Chea Keo around 2002. We had a four-year relationship before having Kai. During this time, I became familiar with her family, and the social dynamics of the Cambodian community. Before ever dreaming that we would one day become co-parents, I learned the details of how Chea was sold by her mother into slavery, four years after their arrival into the United States as refugees from Cambodia. Chea Keo has always sought to get her needs met by engendering sympathy and pity into the hearts of others. This has devolved into using our son as an instrument to gain pity and sympathy. Although she has a master's degree, she still maintains the position of a general victim in most life circumstances.
After Kai's birth, and especially after his autism diagnosis, Chea has apparently assumed a condition of Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy, which is also known as Factitious Disorder Imposed on Another (FDIA) in which she uses Kai to gain sympathy and pity from others. I understand that this behavior may also result from Chea's childhood as a Cambodian refugee. For the record, the sexual age of consent in Cambodia is 11 years old, in the year 2025.
Again, I have no reason or motive to lie about this. I am a successful entrepreneur, and the president of BiomedRx Inc. I have also recently launched TWO mobile apps for Android and iPhone, Job Site Route and Labor Dia. I honestly do not have the time or inclination to unecessarily involve myself with law enforcement matters. But as you can see from the information, pictures, and videos on this directory of my website that I have put alot into raising my son Kai, and I love him very much.
You will find many videos on this directory of my website of Kai and me praying together. I raised Kai as a Catholic, and we attended two years of Catechism at St. Anthony Catholic Church in Upland, where Kai received the sacraments of Baptism, Holy Communion, Reconciliation (Confession), and Confirmation. During almost every prayer, Kai asks God to give his mother the psychiatric help that she needs. Please watch the videos below.
1:11 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
This was recorded before the sexual abuse started, while we were still studying Catechism..
1:04 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:27 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:27 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:10 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:15 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
0:55 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:36 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
0:51 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:06 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:43 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:32 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:15 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:46 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:50 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
Please notice the difference in his demeanor after his mother molested him. Notice the blurry vision. He had been self-soothing (babbling to himself) all of the night before. Notice how he rushed to pray, and how he rushed frantically through his prayers, in order to ask God to help his mother.
I can always tell when his mother has molested him recently. He is obviously traumatized.
1:04 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:22 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:02 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:16 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:05 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:38 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
0:54 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
3:02 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:05 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
0:53 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:09 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:05 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:24 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
Notice the joy, lightness, and innocence while we were studying in Catechism, before his mother started the sexual abuse, and increased the mercury poisoning. Notice the energy and clarity, compared to videos recorded when he was just a little older..
1:03 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
Now notice the thousand-mile stare, after being sexually abused by his mother.
1:02 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:06 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs." Now notice the residual trauma in his eyes and demeanor after the sexual abuse began.
1:36 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs." He's more relaxed after a few days at Dad's.
1:00 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs." Still some indication of blurry vision and nervousness. PTSD.
0:50 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
0:57 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
0:56 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:10 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:12 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
During Catechism Kai was very passionate about studying the Bible..
1:02 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs." Please notice Kai's sincerity when he makes this request this time.
1:07 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:42 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:09 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
2:30 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs." This is a Happy New Year video.
4:45 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs." This is another Happy New Year video from 2023.
1:56 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs." This is yet another Happy New Year video.
Chea Keo has a lot of ethnic shame, and often tries to project (black) stereotypes onto me, such as being abusive, or being a negligent (dead beat) father. This is done in order to engender sympathy for herself in the hearts of anyone who is stupid enough to believe her lies, and to mischaracterize me. In 2009, Chea was arrested by the LAPD for shoplifting and fighting with the sales clerk that confronted her about it in Rite Aid on Vermont Ave. & 3rd St. in Los Angeles. Chea Keo used our son's baby stroller to hide the items she was stealing. My father, who worked as a security guard for a different Rite Aid store at the time, asked the security guard at the store in question why the LAPD was called, when they usually just ask the shoplifter to return the goods and never come back. The security guard told my father they wouldn't have called the LAPD were it not for Chea Keo fist fighting their sales clerk in the parking lot, while my son's baby stroller rolled away into traffic, with Kai inside the stroller!.
This illustrates her lack of parental concern for our child, and her emotional instability, as well as her character.
Chea Keo stole our son's innocence. As Kai reaches adulthood, it is increasingly uncomfortable for us to talk about adult topics, because his first sexual memories will always be with his mother. Chea knew what she was doing when she molested him. My son doesn't feel like he can face me. Because he knows that I know what is going on, and that I do not approve of it. My son used to want to impress me and make me proud of him. And now he feels as though that will never be possible. She has destroyed his conscience and crushed his soul. Now my son is struggling with confusion, anger, depression, shame, guilt, disgust and self-hatred. It will take years of therapy for Kai to recover from his mother's sexual abuse.
I understand Kai's not wanting to report his mother to the authorities. I wouldn't either if I were him. But there is a difference between deciding to protect someone, and internalizing incest. Chea Keo has been intensifying her enmeshment control and frequency of incest lately. My son is struggling trying to deny that the molestation ever happened. This will be impossible for him to accomplish while maintaining a relationship with his father, because we have had many conversations where he described to me in detail what his mother has made him do. Kai has also disclosed the truth to a school friend who lives in our apartment complex, and directly to the Upland Police Department when he was leaving my house.
Chea Keo has extremely low self-esteem. I have tried to lovingly help her bolster her self esteem throughout our entire association, to no avail. Colorism in the Cambodian culture often results in darker complected people, especially women, to be considered inferior.
Chea knows how incest is considered an unspeakable atrocity in American culture, and she is counting on the embarrassment of even being tangentially associated with such subhuman behavior to silence me from going public with the grand injustice she has done to our child. And for five years it worked, except for my pleas to the authorities.
Chea Keo is also committing IMMIGRATION FRAUD. She is also involved in a fraudulent marriage to a Cambodian criminal alien, for which her family receives a monthly stipend. Her husband in this fraudulent marriage has actually claimed MY child on his tax returns.
This is the first day Chea Keo molested Kai. The Day of his Catholic Baptism & Confirmation.
Chea Keo is in a struggle for control over the development of Kai's personality, and she is willing to destroy his character and his relationship with God through incest in order to alienate him from me. She is trying to grind his self-esteem into the dust, as was done to her when she was a child. This is inducing a state of schizophrenia in my son, as she sends him the unspoken message that he cannot have his mother's love if he loves his father. Incest is causing a moral conflict, as well as a conflict of character and conscience, within my son. I hate to see him suffer like this. It is affecting his behavior and performance at school. I fear that she is repeating this incestuous behavior in order to break my son's character, and force him to internalize incest. Also to provoke an Oedipus Complex within him, which would alienate him from me and make him hate me.
Like any child, Kai does not want to see his mother go to jail, so he has lied about incest to the authorities in order to protect his mother. Chea Keo is repeatedly incesting my son in order to make him internalize incest and break his character. This is called trauma bonding This not only places Kai at risk of insanity and poor character, it also places my grandchildren at risk of sexual abuse, should Kai have children in the future. I feel sympathy for the horrors that Chea Keo has probably suffered at the hands of the men her mother sold her to when she was around 10 years old, but that does not mean I am willing to sacrifice my son's mental health because she refuses to seek help for herself.
Chea Keo has done none of the parenting acivities or autism therapies illustrated in the hundreds of pictures and videos displayed on this directory of my website, and has actively sought to hinder his cognitive health by poisoning him with mercury, which I have detected with urinalysis.
Chea Keo has a financial incentive to keep our son in a cognitively impaired condition, as she receives at least $750.00 per month from the Social Security Administration for Kai's care.
Chea Keo has never supported my efforts to recover my son from autism, and I am afraid she has been actively working to sabotage my efforts. I have carefully tracked my sons progress in recovery from autism, using the ATEC (Autism Treatment Evaluation Checklist) protocol, which is available online. The regression my son presently displays are the symptoms of mercury poisoning, which include blurred vision, skin rashes, and cognitive impairment. I feel a great sense of urgency in this matter, as further poisoning of my son could lead to permanent blindness and brain damage.
High levels of mercury are found in Kai's blood.
The picture above is the result of a urinalysis Kai performed at our home on July 24th, 2023, after I noticed Kai experiencing blurred vision, skin rashes, and iritability. These are signs of mercury poisoning. Notice the orange color, which indicates the strong presence of mercury.
This is the color chart for the Osumex Heavy Metals test. Kai still shows the presence of mercury, despite my efforts at chelating him through chelation therapy, Bentonite clay (Milorganite), and Zeolite (Clinoptilolite), as well as Ionic Foot Detoxification. He is being deliberately poisoned. Please notice the occasional droopyness and dark rings around his eyes on several of the pictures on this directory of my website.
Chea Keo and I have different cultures and perspectives about a child's role in a parent's life, and in life in general. I hope for Kai to one day individuate, because I understand that he will outlive both his mother and me, and he has to survive in this world. In Cambodian culture, children are seen as property. Chea does not want Kai to individuate. She wants Kai to be forever dependent upon her. Although Kai has been on the autism spectrum, Kai is much more perspicacious than his mother want's people to believe. Chea's narcissistic enmeshment abuse, and her efforts to trauma-bond Kai with incest, are intended to prevent Kai from individuating. This is why her parental alienation tactics have intensified as he gets older. Chea Keo does not care about Kai's ability to pair bond and live a normal life in the future. This may be why she showed no interest in any of Kai's autism therapies, tutoring, or physical exercise.
After seeing this high-mercury result, I rushed Kai to the Emergency Room at San Antonio Regional Hospital where they scheduled Kai for blood tests. Chea Keo tried her best to minimize the severity of the situation, and took a defensive attitude. She asked the laboratory technician to annotate his lab results as being a "low" level of mercury (as if that was the lab tech's job). But never once did she express any motherly concern for the elevated level of mercury in Kai's blood. Mind you, I never accused Chea of anything. I only told her Kai had a high level of mercury in his blood, and asked her to meet us at the Emergency Room.
Background
I met Chea Keo around 2002. We had a four-year relationship before having Kai. During this time, I became familiar with her family, and the social dynamics of the Cambodian community. Before ever dreaming that we would one day become co-parents, I learned the details of how Chea was sold by her mother into slavery, four years after their arrival into the United States as refugees from Cambodia. Chea Keo has always sought to get her needs met by engendering sympathy and pity into the hearts of others. This has devolved into using our son as an instrument to gain pity and sympathy. Although she has a master's degree, she still maintains the position of a general victim in most life circumstances.
After Kai's birth, and especially after his autism diagnosis, Chea has apparently assumed a condition of Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy, which is also known as Factitious Disorder Imposed on Another (FDIA) in which she uses Kai to gain sympathy and pity from others. I understand that this behavior may also result from Chea's childhood as a Cambodian refugee. For the record, the sexual age of consent in Cambodia is 11 years old, in the year 2025.
Again, I have no reason or motive to lie about this. I am a successful entrepreneur, and the president of BiomedRx Inc. I have also recently launched TWO mobile apps for Android and iPhone, Job Site Route and Labor Dia. I honestly do not have the time or inclination to unecessarily involve myself with law enforcement matters. But as you can see from the information, pictures, and videos on this directory of my website that I have put alot into raising my son Kai, and I love him very much.
You will find many videos on this directory of my website of Kai and me praying together. I raised Kai as a Catholic, and we attended two years of Catechism at St. Anthony Catholic Church in Upland, where Kai received the sacraments of Baptism, Holy Communion, Reconciliation (Confession), and Confirmation. During almost every prayer, Kai asks God to give his mother the psychiatric help that she needs. Please watch the videos below.
My son spontaneously prays for the victims of tragedy, wars, and natural disasters without prompting. So why does he consistently pray for his mother "to get the help that she needs"?
What kind of "help" do you think he is praying for?
Do you think he is praying that she finds a housekeeper?
1:11 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
This was recorded before the sexual abuse started, while we were still studying Catechism..
1:04 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:27 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:27 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:10 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:15 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
0:55 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:36 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
0:51 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:06 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:43 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:32 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:15 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:46 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:50 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
Please notice the difference in his demeanor after his mother molested him. Notice the blurry vision. He had been self-soothing (babbling to himself) all of the night before. Notice how he rushed to pray, and how he rushed frantically through his prayers, in order to ask God to help his mother.
I can always tell when his mother has molested him recently. He is obviously traumatized.
1:04 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:22 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:02 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:16 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:05 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:38 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
0:54 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
3:02 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:05 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
0:53 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:09 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:05 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:24 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
Notice the joy, lightness, and innocence while we were studying in Catechism, before his mother started the sexual abuse, and increased the mercury poisoning. Notice the energy and clarity, compared to videos recorded when he was just a little older..
1:03 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
Now notice the thousand-mile stare, after being sexually abused by his mother.
1:02 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:06 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs." Now notice the residual trauma in his eyes and demeanor after the sexual abuse began.
1:36 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs." He's more relaxed after a few days at Dad's.
1:00 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs." Still some indication of blurry vision and nervousness. PTSD.
0:50 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
0:57 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
0:56 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:10 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:12 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
During Catechism Kai was very passionate about studying the Bible..
1:02 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs." Please notice Kai's sincerity when he makes this request this time.
1:07 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:42 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
1:09 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs."
2:30 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs." This is a Happy New Year video.
4:45 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs." This is another Happy New Year video from 2023.
Please note how many years Kai has been praying for his mother to get the help that she needs.
1:56 "I want to pray for my Mom to get the nelp that she needs." This is yet another Happy New Year video.
Chea Keo has a lot of ethnic shame, and often tries to project (black) stereotypes onto me, such as being abusive, or being a negligent (dead beat) father. This is done in order to engender sympathy for herself in the hearts of anyone who is stupid enough to believe her lies, and to mischaracterize me. In 2009, Chea was arrested by the LAPD for shoplifting and fighting with the sales clerk that confronted her about it in Rite Aid on Vermont Ave. & 3rd St. in Los Angeles. Chea Keo used our son's baby stroller to hide the items she was stealing. My father, who worked as a security guard for a different Rite Aid store at the time, asked the security guard at the store in question why the LAPD was called, when they usually just ask the shoplifter to return the goods and never come back. The security guard told my father they wouldn't have called the LAPD were it not for Chea Keo fist fighting their sales clerk in the parking lot, while my son's baby stroller rolled away into traffic, with Kai inside the stroller!.
This illustrates her lack of parental concern for our child, and her emotional instability, as well as her character.
Chea Keo stole our son's innocence. As Kai reaches adulthood, it is increasingly uncomfortable for us to talk about adult topics, because his first sexual memories will always be with his mother. Chea knew what she was doing when she molested him. My son doesn't feel like he can face me. Because he knows that I know what is going on, and that I do not approve of it. My son used to want to impress me and make me proud of him. And now he feels as though that will never be possible. She has destroyed his conscience and crushed his soul. Now my son is struggling with confusion, anger, depression, shame, guilt, disgust and self-hatred. It will take years of therapy for Kai to recover from his mother's sexual abuse.
I understand Kai's not wanting to report his mother to the authorities. I wouldn't either if I were him. But there is a difference between deciding to protect someone, and internalizing incest. Chea Keo has been intensifying her enmeshment control and frequency of incest lately. My son is struggling trying to deny that the molestation ever happened. This will be impossible for him to accomplish while maintaining a relationship with his father, because we have had many conversations where he described to me in detail what his mother has made him do. Kai has also disclosed the truth to a school friend who lives in our apartment complex, and directly to the Upland Police Department when he was leaving my house.
Chea Keo has extremely low self-esteem. I have tried to lovingly help her bolster her self esteem throughout our entire association, to no avail. Colorism in the Cambodian culture often results in darker complected people, especially women, to be considered inferior.
Chea knows how incest is considered an unspeakable atrocity in American culture, and she is counting on the embarrassment of even being tangentially associated with such subhuman behavior to silence me from going public with the grand injustice she has done to our child. And for five years it worked, except for my pleas to the authorities.
Chea Keo is also committing IMMIGRATION FRAUD. She is also involved in a fraudulent marriage to a Cambodian criminal alien, for which her family receives a monthly stipend. Her husband in this fraudulent marriage has actually claimed MY child on his tax returns.